We touch our smartphones an average of 2,617 times a day. Every "bing," every vibration, every red notification badge is a little dopamine hit that keeps us hooked for the next one. But have you ever wondered what you're missing while staring at the screen? Life happens in the analog world.
Tech giants design apps like slot machines. The principle behind it is called "Variable Reward Schedule." When you open Instagram, you don't know what you'll see – a funny video, a message, or nothing. This uncertainty maximally stimulates the reward system in our brain. The result: a permanently overstimulated nervous system that becomes incapable of engaging in slow, deep activities (Deep Work, reading, conversations).
FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) is the fear of missing something. JOMO is the opposite: the joy of not being everywhere at once. It's the conscious choice of quality over quantity. When you're no longer constantly reachable, you signal to yourself and others: My time and attention are valuable.
There is a deep satisfaction in creating or experiencing something real. Turning a paper page, the scratch of a fountain pen, the smell of damp clay. These tactile stimuli ground us. They reconnect us with the physical reality we are at risk of losing in the metaverse.
The HWA Assistant can help you analyze your screen time and create a gentle detox plan.