Parenting is not a static set of rules, but a living relationship. Every day we face new challenges and ask ourselves: Am I too strict? Am I too loose? Modern psychology offers us guidance on how we can accompany children to become strong, empathetic personalities.
Needs-Oriented Accompaniment
The core of modern approaches is attachment. It's not about "taming" or manipulating children, but understanding their behavior as a communication of their needs. This doesn't mean not setting boundaries, but filling boundaries with love and explanation.
The Four Classic Parenting Styles
1. Authoritarian
Strict rules without much room for co-determination. Today, this style is considered risky for the child's self-esteem.
2. Laissez-faire / Permissive
Few boundaries, much freedom. However, children often miss the necessary orientation and security here.
3. Authoritative (The "Gold Standard")
Clear rules and expectations, paired with high emotional warmth and willingness for dialogue.
Growth Through Trust
Children learn most through role models. When we reflect on ourselves and admit our mistakes, we show them that growth is a lifelong process. Playing together is the most important learning space.
